WHILE YOU ARE WAITING-what to do?

I had a conversation with someone and they said this

"I share this because I know I’m not the only woman who has felt this. (If I am, lie to me.) I speak to countless of women who desire relationships, but have nowhere to turn other than work, church, and the internet. I believe there is nothing wrong with any of those arteries to love, but why do we shy away from assisting girlfriends in finding the owner of their rib?It is uncomfortable to discuss singleness and loneliness with married women because a very common response permeated almost every discussion. Oh, enjoy your alone time! Once you get married you will miss your freedom, they would almost always say.

Really?!
I’d trade in my freedom and designer denim for warmth in my bed and the ability to cuddle with something other than my books.
 I’m not suggesting church become a religious Match.com, more than I am desiring the doors of communication to open wide. If Eliezer could match-make for Issac, if Naomi could encourage Ruth to take a risk, and if God’s beautiful analogy for the church is the picture of marriage, why not embrace single girls and discuss desires, demands, and dreams?

The above and some questions i was given to answer made me write the points below on what you could do as you wait.
1. Be what you want to attract.
What type of person do you want in your life? You want a warm, funny, educated person. Ask yourself: Am I that person? Sometimes the qualities we seek in our future partner are things that we also need to work on ourselves. Often I think of God saying, when you hand him over your great big list of wants, ‘okay so you want all this for you, what have you got to offer?’
2. What do I deserve?
You deserve God’s best. When I was born He said ‘I was a good thing’. I am fearfully and wonderfully made. I am a priceless jewel who should treasured and look after.
If it looks like a skunk, walks like a skunk and smells like a skunk – it is a skunk.  To often we settle for 10% when our 100% is out there waiting for us.
Do not accept: bad behaviour in any shape or form. If he is behaving badly now, what makes you think he will change when you get together?
3. Get busy about life. Meet others who have things in common.
Live life to the fullest. Look at your gifts {usually what people celebrate that you think is nothing} and use them. A little thing can turn into a big thing, if you let God develop it. Know the value of your gift.
Develop your talents and don’t spend time ‘waiting’ around doing nothing, your single years are when you’re most free. You can do what you want, go where you want. Stay busy being purposeful.
‘Occupy until I come’. Luke 19:13.
4. Get into community with people.
God created us to love. Pour yourself out to people/children who need it whether it be your local church, your neighbours or any other group/charity where you can give back,get involved.
5. Build platonic relationships with the opposite sex.
Men are great to have as friends. They have a completely different perspective on life and can often offer practical ways to solve problems. Building platonic relationships helps you learn how to relate to them in a healthy way and understand the male psyche. Men are also great to have around when you have some heavy lifting to do!:):):)
6. Get your house in order.
This includes:
-  your finances: pay off as much debt as you can. No debt? Build up your savings?
- your health: you want to lose those extra 10kgs – go for it, you don’t need a man before you do it.
- career: go for that job, take that extra class; develop yourself.
It’s about having a vision of where you want to go, who you are and where you want to be.  Establish the quality of your life now – it sets the standard for when he arrives.
7. Pray and wait joyfully
Enjoy where you are right now. Pray for your mate. Stop asking for him – pray for him. Have an air of expectancy and stay open to the possibilities of change. 
Never take the day for granted; have an attitude of gratitude’. I’ve mentioned this before but having a daily journal where you record the things you are thank you can really helpful you stay focus on being thankful rather than ‘woe is me’.  Live in the present and stay thankful.
TRY AND WAIT JOYFULLY NOT MISERABLY..OK?